Boundaries by Neurology in Neurodiverse Relationships
An exploration of how autistic and non-autistic nervous systems perceive and maintain boundaries differently—and how misunderstanding these differences shapes Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™.

An exploration of how autistic and non-autistic nervous systems perceive and maintain boundaries differently—and how misunderstanding these differences shapes Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™.

Boundaries are explored as a core, neurologically shaped process within Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™, emerging from differences in perception, feedback, and nervous system processing—and helping explain boundary misalignment in neurodiverse relationships.

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A
Action impact understanding
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: A Three-Domain Framework
Adult diagnosis
From Misdiagnosis to Clarity: Level 1 Autism in the 21st Century
Level 1 Autistic Adults in our Families and Communities: Unseen Challenges and Neurodiverse Communication
Aggression
Passiveness, Assertiveness, and Aggression in Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Intermittent Trauma Spikes in Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Allism
Understanding Body Empathy: The Non-Autistic Sense Supporting Connection
Arousal vs overwhelm
Artificial Intelligence
Sixteen Pathways: One Lens
Asynchronous development
Attachment
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: A Three-Domain Framework
Attachment by Neurology in Neurodiverse Relationships
Attachment differences
Attachment in neurodiverse families
Attachment and sexuality
Attention Neurodivergence (A-ND or ADHD)
Neurodiverse Families and the Co-Occurrence of Autism and Attention Neurodivergence (ADHD): Insights fro Recent Studies
Autism Neurodivergence (AS-ND or ASD)
Neurodiverse Families and the Co-Occurrence of Autism and Attention Neurodivergence (ADHD): Insights from Recent Studies
Autistic adults
Level 1 Autistic Adults in our Families and Communities: Unseen Challenges and Neurodiverse Communication
Autistic children
Autistic–autistic relationships
Autism–non-autistic partnerships
Autonomic dysregulation
Autonomic regulation
Autonomy vs shame
B
Behavioral compliance vs regulation
Body empathy
Boundaries
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: A Three-Domain Framework
Boundaries as a Core Element of Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Boundary confusion
Boundary erosion
Burnout
C
Child-centered planning
Child protection in schools
Child safety
Chronic stress
Clinical authority
Clinical practice (neurodiverse)
Cognitive empathy
Cognitive processing styles
Communication breakdowns
Conflict escalation
Passiveness, Assertiveness, and Aggression in Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Consciousness
Consent and capacity
Courtship differences
Credibility bias
D
Dating and neurodiversity
Desire discrepancy
Desire regulation
Developmental plateaus
Developmental psychology
Attachment by Neurology in Neurodiverse Relationships
Developmental trauma
Diagnosis
From Misdiagnosis to Clarity: Level 1 Autism in the 21st Century
Neurodiverse Families and the Co-Occurrence of Autism and Attention Neurodivergence (ADHD): Insights from Recent Studies
Differential development
Attachment by Neurology in Neurodiverse Relationships
Documentation abuse
Documentation expectations
E
Educational trauma
Embodied simulation
Emotional awareness
Emotional flooding
Emotional granularity
Emotional interoceptive action
Emotional interoceptive awareness
Emotional interoceptive sensitivity
Emotional intimacy
Emotional labor
Emotional misattunement
Emotional numbing
Emotional overwhelm
Emotional regulation
Emotional safety in sex
Emotional trauma
Passiveness, Assertiveness, and Aggression in Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Empathic-emotion intensity
Empathy
How a Meta-Analysis Ended the "Broken Mirror Neuron Debate" on Autism and Empathy
Understanding Body Empathy: The Non-Autistic Sense Supporting Connection
Empathy & emotion
Erikson’s stages
F
Families (neurodiverse)
Family roles
Family systems therapy
Freeze responses
Friendship
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: A Three-Domain Framework
G
Gaslighting
Grief in neurodiverse relationships
H
High Body Empathetic Neurodivergence (HBE-ND)
Hypervigilance
I
Identity collapse
Identity erosion
Identity formation
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: A Three-Domain Framework
Inclusion failures
Initiative vs guilt
Insight without blame
Institutional abuse
Institutional misinterpretation
Intimacy
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: A Three-Domain Framework
Intimacy differences
Intimate life partnerships
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: A Three-Domain Framework
Intergenerational trauma
Intermittent trauma spikes
Passiveness, Assertiveness, and Aggression in Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Intermittent Trauma Spikes in Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Interoception
Interoceptive action
Interoceptive awareness
Interoceptive sensitivity
Invisible labor
Intent vs impact
L
Late insight
Legal systems and neurodiversity
Lifespan development
Lifespan effects
Loyalty conflicts
M
Making sense of damage
Masking
Meaning-making
Mechanism vs behavior
Mirror Neuron System
How a Meta-Analysis Ended the "Broken Mirror Neuron Debate" on Autism and Empathy
Misattribution
Misbehavior vs overload
Intermittent Trauma Spikes in Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Misdiagnosis
Mixed-neurology households
Mixed-neurology relationships
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: When Different Nervous Systems Try to Connect
Passiveness, Assertiveness, and Aggression in Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
N
Narrative control
Narrative repair
Neurobiology of relational safety
Neurodiverse clinical work
Neurodiverse families
Level 1 Autistic Adults in our Families and Communities: Unseen Challenges and Neurodiverse Communication
Neurodiverse intimate life partnerships
Neurodiverse relationships
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™ (NRD™)
Level 1 Autistic Adults in our Families and Communities: Unseen Challenges and Neurodiverse Communication
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: When Different Nervous Systems Try to Connect
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: A Three-Domain Framework
Boundaries as a Core Element of Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Intermittent Trauma Spikes in Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Neurodiversity
Neurodivergence
Neurology
Neurology-Based Power™ (NBP™)
Nervous system harm
Nervous system safety
Non-autistic neurology
Understanding Body Empathy: The Non-Autistic Sense Supporting Connection
P
Parent-child relationships
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: A Three-Domain Framework
Parenting autistic children
Parenting neurodiverse children
Parenting non-autistic children
Pathologizing behavior
Pattern and Sequence Reflections (PSR)
Performance misinterpretation
Power asymmetry
Power dynamics at work
Predictive processing
Problem Solving
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: A Three-Domain Framework
Procedural harm
Professional credibility
Protective strategies
Provider competencies
Provider misinterpretation
R
Reclaiming self
Relational safety
Relational timing mismatch
Relational trauma
Passiveness, Assertiveness, and Aggression in Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Reputation harm
Role confusion
S
School refusal
School systems and neurodiversity
Self-understanding
Sensory differences and sex
Sensory overload
Sensory processing
Sensory safety
Sensory safety in children
Sensory-safe learning environments
Sensory thresholds
Separation as intervention
Separation as safety
Sequential Problem Solving
Sexual intimacy
Shutdown
Sibling relationships
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: A Three-Domain Framework
Special education
Spiral development
Staying vs leaving
Staircase development
Symptom-based models
Systemic clarity
T
Teacher misinterpretation
Trauma
Intermittent Trauma Spikes in Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™
Trauma-informed care
Trauma-informed sexuality
Trauma misdiagnosis
Trauma without narrative
Trust vs mistrust
U
Unmasking
W
Whole-body emotional experience
Workplace accommodations
Workplace burnout
Workplace misinterpretation
Neurodiverse Relationship Dynamics™: When Different Nervous Systems Try to Connect
Workplace power dynamics
